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Permalink Reply by tough E on July 7, 2011 at 12:01pm

Wa salaam brother,

Maybe you can also post your other personality profile for better appreciation. Like your age, status, profession, built, etc. Well that is just a suggestion :)  May you find a good muslim wife. Inshaallah.

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Permalink Reply by asif_okara@yahoo.com on July 7, 2011 at 12:18pm

Aslamulakum, Dear Brother,

My age is 33,

business , owner,wood flooring compnay in pakistan

 asian ,Muslim born

want islamic way of life with newly converted muslim ,

girl should be educated and poor, and live with me in pakistan,

i dont need any requirement except above

Thanks

Muhammad asif

Skype. asif_manila

Email.  asif_okara@yahoo.com

facebook.   asif_manila@hotmail.comcell.+92-3004258831

Salam to All of u

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Permalink Reply by ibrahim on July 7, 2011 at 9:05pm

wa alaykum salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh,

alhamdulillah

your intention might be good brother, but this is not the right site nor the right way to find a wife.

just put yourself in others' shoes, let us say for example you have a daughter, would you agree for her to marry a muslim man whom she only knows from this site? i dont think you will.

so be considerate to our sisters here as well. if you really want to, you can go again to ustads ahmed barcelon and maybe there is still available muslimah who wnats to accept your proposal, that is better my brother so that they may know you personally and you may know the muslimah and her family as well, inshaAllah.
or in your locality where you stay right now, i believe those brothers there in the masjid near you can help you when you inform them of your good intention.

many women became victims of cyber match making, and the recent young woman who was found dead in her room after meeting someone she knows from the social network. we dont want to repeat such incident with our muslimahs here so please be considerate.

marriage in Islam is very easy because Islam discourages zinaa. and only marriage is a lawful relation for a man and a woman. so we appreciate your plan and intention brother, that's good, mashaAllah.

jazakallahu khayran brother

and it is our duaa that may Allah help you and grant you a good wife who will not only be the happiness of your heart but also be a good mother as well to your children to bring them up in knowing, submitting, obeying and worshiping our Creator alone, ameen

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Permalink Reply by asif_okara@yahoo.com on July 7, 2011 at 9:49pm

Waslam , Brother,

Thankyou for good way for my guidance iin this regard, i will come personly inshallah i will see brother Ahmed barcelon, Thanks again

Allah Hafiz

Muhammad asif

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Permalink Reply by Atom Weight on July 8, 2011 at 1:02pm

Waleikumsalaam Bro Asif,

I fully agree with Bro. Ibrahim.

We protect each other. More so with our muslimahs. So please brother can you tell:

1) Your marriage/divorce history and number and ages of children at present and where are they now.

2) "Must be poor" is a should and not a preference, why? As an act of charity to the muslimah? 

3) Educated in what? Business Management, Computer, Teacher ?

4) Any age limit or preferences.

5) Only Converted, why?

6) How about a divorcee or with  small kids from previous marriage? 

Sorry Brother Asif, you started the discussion, so please share with us your thoughts.

Salamat Bro. (Salamat in Pakistan means "I will do u good deed because of ur good deed")

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